Caring and your daily Life

 
The first step to being enlightened and more in tune to the energy around you is to begin by taking notice of the actual energy around you. This sounds like a simple thing but it is something that is missed by so many people.

There is a difference between caring and poking your nose into someone’s affairs. Talking to someone so that you can benefit or so that you can then gossip is not caring. Have you noticed that often you will find that people will talk to you only to benefit themselves, this is an uncaring individual?

As the stress of our busy lives comes down on us and the isolation of energy especially in the city areas we do not take any notice of people we see every day or even our family members sometimes. I have talked to people that have not known anything about someone that they have worked with for five years. This is what happens when we isolate ourselves and block the energy that is around us.

Have you really looked at the people you work with?
Do you know if your partner felt a little down today or if your children had a spark in their eyes this morning? Have you lost your smile?
Because of the hectic lifestyle that most people lead and the absolute driven way that they have to be - in order to keep the money coming in – they tend to not look around them.

Have you noticed if the tree that you pass by has flowers on it, have you noticed if the garden you drive by is still there? You may find that this is a strange question but when you start taking particular notice you will see so much more. By not noticing people and nature around you, it is a day of doing things by rote.

By actually taking notice you will see a whole new world and a whole new emotional experience will come your way.

Some time back I was talking with and reading for an office of sixteen people, they are an office with the need for high sales to keep the business going. They were not melding as a group and each day there were petty arguments and an unhappy energy had pervaded the area.

On the very first day I found that two of the ladies were not well, both had really lagging auras and one in particular had been quite ill for around three months. In talking separately to the people I found that not one of them had noticed that this lady was having a bad time. She had worked with most of them for around two years. Her pallor was yellow and her eyes were quite sunken, she said she had lost around eight kilos, yet no one had noticed.

Not one person had asked her if she was ok.
They are not bad people they are good people, just too involved in doing their work and putting in the time that they were closed to the other people that they spent most hours of the day with. This type of closed energy does not only happen around work people, when these people went out of the office to interact and sell to the public, they were still not open to the people that they are trying to sell to.

What happens is that the work becomes more important than the outcome. After talking to them and explaining to them how interest and caring makes for a relationship whether it is work or personal and how they were not being part of the universal caring energy – changes started to take place.

Even a warm “hi” in the morning that is actually directed at a particular person will give you back warm energy. If you ask ‘how are you?’ and mean it, it is a different sounding sentence. Each of us would like to have those we know caring about our welfare but in wanting this we do not give out that warmth and caring ourselves. Do you notice that you get vacant looks from people that you are talking to about your life, mostly this is because you have not given out that caring to them. Give it out you will get it back.

Isolation of energy is a big thing in this time. In small and isolated communities you still find that the caring energy is around and alive with the community, it is true that not all are caring but it is higher than the city urban areas.

Think about your day, do you get on the same bus with the same driver and sit in the same seat each day, do you know the bus driver’s name or have you ever warmly said "how are you today?" And meant it? When you buy your lunch do you actually speak to the people or do you just spit out your order. If you were unwell in your workplace would anyone care?

Put some caring in your day and take notice of the world around you, a difference will come into your life that is so noticeable that you will never go back to not being a caring individual.

 

Blessings,

Tricia