LIFE PATH RELATIONSHIPS – CONTRACT SOULS

 I am often asked about relationships, this is one of the most important parts of our life path, meeting and joining with others to bring about what we are looking for to really bring our life into that perfect zone.

As we go through our lives we watch others and often think that they are having a better relationship, a better home, a better job and a better life. 

But everyone has difficulties it is how you handle them that is important to your future.

If you take notice you will find that those that seem to be having a better time are people that accept change and make plans to bring a better time into their lives.

 When a relationship does not pan out or when a long term relationship seems to tank unexpectedly it is normal to go into a time of despair and a time of stress. 

 

Letting go is the hardest thing. If you have not heard from someone that you had relationship with some time ago or if you have love for someone that does not show the same emotion back, this is a state of stress that is consuming. 

Knowing when to let go, that is the problem faced by so many people. 
Also, the worry over why the relationship did not work.

Firstly it is important to remember that others may have a quicker rate of recovery from stressful change.

 

Each person comes to us as part of our life contract, when we enter into this life we have the opportunity to bring about what lessons we want to learn in this life and the people we will meet, so people will come and go when the part of their lesson has finished.

You will know when someone is part of your life contract, they will find you, and you do not have to look for them. 

These people are soul mates and can be lovers or adversaries, you need to let your spirit resolve the issues with that person and then see how that issue has bought growth to your life.

If you look into the relationship you will see why you were meant to know that person, and also you will see how knowing them changed things in your life.

 

You cannot force people to be part of your life contract so when you do not have that feeling of ‘electricity’ and you do not feel a connection this person is not a life contract person. Amazingly sometimes it is possible to think you have a connection but it is not reciprocated, this is not a connection.

Connections happen when both parties have the life contract to be in each others energy for a period of time, it may be a day or twenty years.

These are the people that come into your life and it is not something that you have to keep chasing down, if you have to try really hard or stalk someone, well they are not part of your pre-destined life.

Each person, each event of significance has an agreed on role in your learning experience.  Sometimes the learning is wonderful, sometimes the learning is hard mostly because you do not surrender to the lesson to be learned.

 

By not seeing that something is over, looking at the lessons learned and moving on to the next lesson we just prolong the anguish and it is self inflicted cruelty.

When a relationship ends, take the pain, suffer the hurt then look for the benefit and move on to the next life lesson, struggling against change will always make your life feel hard.

What happens is that you are stuck, stuck in a time that should be passed, every time you come to the end of a relationship it is because you need to move into the next phase of your life.

A relationship that has ended or someone that no longer wants to take your calls, accept your emails is a relationship or contract life event that is passed.

 

Once you take the goal to move on with your life you will soon see why you had this relationship break up, it is because it happened to take you to a better place in your time and to make room for the next life contract event to come along.  

In my experience over the years I notice that everyone looks back on a bad relationship break and realises that without that in their lives they would not be where they are now.

How ever so many people try to hold onto a relationship that is over or never going to be part of a life contract point, this is emotionally damaging and a dreadful waste of your energy.

 

FIGHTING CHANGE BUILDS UP EMOTIONAL SCAR TISSUE.

SURRENDERING TO CHANGE ALLOWS YOU TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE.

 

Blessings,

Tricia